John Heck, Founder of Trust Your Family
Founder

Hi, I'm John.

I started this firm because I kept watching families pay the price for plans that were never really plans — just paperwork.

For most of my early career I worked the other side of that paperwork: probate cases that should have been simple, families fighting over things their parents never meant to leave ambiguous, trustees lost in a job no one explained to them. The same patterns kept showing up. The plan was bought, not designed. The lawyer disappeared after the signing. Nobody had updated anything in fifteen years.

So I built something different. A firm where the first conversation is about your family, not your documents. Where the fee is a number you see before you say yes. Where I call you every three years — because the plan I draft for the family you have today won't fit the family you'll have in 2031.

I live in Northern Virginia with my own family. I serve clients across the Commonwealth — most of them within an hour of the office, but a fair few by video from further out. I'm a member of the Virginia State Bar, a Personal Family Lawyer®, and a person who actually wants to take your call.

— John
Founder & Personal Family Lawyer®
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Virginia State Bar Personal Family Lawyer® WealthCounsel Member Estate Planning & Trust
What we believe

Six commitments. Every client.
Every time.

These aren't taglines. They're the rules we built the firm around — and the rules we'll hand you in writing, in your engagement letter, before any work begins.
01

Listen before drafting.

The first conversation is Two hours. We won't recommend a single document until we understand your family, your assets, and what you actually want.

02

Quote before signing.

You'll see fees in writing — flat, phased, or hourly — before you authorize any work. No surprise invoices. No clock running on phone calls.

03

Plain English, always.

If we use a legal term, we'll define it on the spot. Every document we draft is summarized in a one-page plain-English overview — for you and your family.

04

Fund what we draft.

An unfunded trust is a binder on a shelf. We don't stop at signing — we re-title the assets, update beneficiaries, and confirm the plan actually works.

05

Stay in the relationship.

Every client is invited back every three years for a review at no additional cost. Laws change. Families grow. Your plan should keep up.

06

Refer when honest.

Sometimes the right answer isn't us. We have a vetted bench of CPAs, financial advisors, and litigators we trust — and we'll point you to them with no fee.

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Personal
Family
Lawyer®
What is a Personal Family Lawyer®?

A national standard
for relationship-first
estate planning.

Personal Family Lawyer® is a small, invitation-based network of estate planning firms trained in a relationship-driven model — one where the deliverable isn't the binder, it's the ongoing fit between your plan and your life.

For you, that translates into a few concrete things:

Life and Legacy Planning Session® — a structured two-hour discovery
Three plan tiers, side-by-side, with flat fees
Kids Protection Plan® for parents of minors
Trust funding done with you, not handed off
Three-year review program, included
Plain-English summaries for the whole family
In the community

Workshops. Real questions.
No sales pitch.

We host small workshops most months — at the office, at libraries, and online — covering the questions people actually call us with. Bring a friend.
14
Jun · Sat
10:00 AM

Wills, Trusts & What Actually Happens at the Hospital

A plain-English walkthrough of the documents every adult should have — and which one matters most when it's 2am at the ER.

02
Jul · Wed
12:00 PM

What to Do When You're Named the Trustee

The job nobody trains you for. A 60-minute clinic for new trustees — what's due, by when, and what you can delegate.

19
Jul · Sat
10:00 AM

Planning When You Have Kids Under 18

Guardian nominations, life insurance trusts, and the Kids Protection Plan® — the part of planning that keeps parents up at night.

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"
Besides being a very knowledgeable, competent lawyer, John is a warm, caring human being! He held our hand through the entire process of creating a Trust, and genuinely had our best interest at heart.
— Teresa H. · ★★★★★ on Google
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The first conversation is about your family.
Not your documents.

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